A colleague once came back from a conference and announced that he had learned from a presentation that you were either a \u201cdo-er\u201d or a \u201cbe-er\u201d and that it was important to figure out which one you were. Our society places great value in \u201cdoing,\u201d and it can be tempting to juxtapose the image and goal of productivity against a sedentary image of \u201cbeing.\u201d This is not only a mistake, but it is an unhealthy message to send, particularly to young people. Self-awareness and appreciation for life itself are the essence of \u201cbeing\u201d and give meaning, direction, and fulfillment to anything that one does. And, what one does can positively or negatively impact one\u2019s being. A person\u2019s journey must include an awareness of the healthy dynamic of both \u201cdoing\u201d and \u201cbeing.\u201d A thoughtful, caring school can be instrumental in this process for a young person on such a journey.<\/p>\n
Clearly, there is a great deal of \u201cdoing\u201d that goes on at Trinity-Pawling School. Teaching young people to value hard work and achievement is an important aspect of preparing them for college and for life. Helping our students learn how to define success in their achievement, though, is an inherent aspect of this process. The legendary basketball coach, John Wooden, challenged his players by saying, \u201cTry your hardest in all ways and you are a success. Period. Do less than that and you have failed to one degree or another.\u201d Praising and recognizing the importance of effort is integral to any focus on achievement. A work ethic that places focus on effort enhances resiliency and engages the role of \u201cbeing\u201d in the \u201cdoing.\u201d By contrast, a work ethic that is focused entirely on outcome does little to prepare students for life\u2019s inevitable setbacks. Effort, therefore, is integral to both \u201cdoing\u201d and \u201cbeing.\u201d<\/p>\n
I have been blessed to spend my career in two independent schools that dedicate a portion of the school day to worship. Spirituality is a key component of my \u201cbeing.\u201d As an educator, spirituality is also a key component to my understanding of enriched and effective teaching. While Trinity-Pawling School is dedicated to high academic achievement for each student, this dedication emanates from a commitment to each student\u2019s growth in mind, body, and spirit. Its community is one dedicated toward mutual growth for students and faculty, imbued by a philosophy that affirms that each of its members is given dignity and self-worth by a loving God.<\/p>\n
At Trinity-Pawling, a student\u2019s \u201cbeing\u201d is an integral component of his \u201cdoing.\u201d As educators, our goal is to ensure that the former gives meaning, direction, and fulfillment to the latter. The order of this relationship, moreover, is critically important. Too often, our society emphasizes that one\u2019s \u201cdoing\u201d should define one\u2019s \u201cbeing.\u201d This message is particularly toxic for our children. Defining one\u2019s self-worth based on grades, test scores, athletic prowess, or college acceptance letters places \u201cdoing\u201d at the center of one\u2019s \u201cbeing.\u201d It is essential that schools recognize that \u201cdoing\u201d and \u201cbeing\u201d are different and that time is dedicated so that each student can work to strengthen their understanding of their \u201cbeing.\u201d Under the guidance of caring teachers, students have the opportunity to discover who they are as learners, citizens, friends, and human beings. In so doing, they can begin to explore the depths of the greatness that exists in each of them. Finding this greatness exists at the nexus between being and doing.<\/p>\n
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