Tom Densford has dedicated his career to pursuing his passion — making a difference in the lives of young people. No stranger to the independent school experience, Densford dedicated the past 17 years to one independent school in particular, St. George’s in Memphis, Tennessee. Although he was in one place, Densford had many opportunities to let his gifts and talents shine — as a dean of students, head varsity baseball coach, athletic director, and associate director of advancement.
Born and raised in Millington, Tennessee into a family of teachers, Densford spent his entire 47-year life in Tennessee, until now. I sat with him during his second week at the School to find out how he’s adapting to New York — the people, the place, the food — and to his new job at Trinity-Pawling.
What was your first impression of Trinity-Pawling?
The beauty! The way the quad is surrounded by the community gives a certain flow and symmetry to the campus. I love that I can watch the sunrise every morning and the sunset, over the mountains to the west, every evening.
What are you most looking forward to in your new position as the Associate Director of Alumni and Parent Relations?
Meeting the community members and hearing their stories. I’ve heard Bill Taylor talk about the School for many years, I feel like I know it. I am already hearing the same stories from alumni, whether they are from the Class of ’52 or ’22, of how positively Trinity-Pawling impacted them.
Imagine three years from now, what do you hope to accomplish?
I want to touch base with every single alum once a year. I’d like to cultivate relationships with alumni across all generations — just to help them remember their youth and encourage them to be more involved with their alma mater.
Do you have a favorite place on campus yet?
Scully Hall. I love seeing the entire community all together in one location. And the dining hall staff tries to do a pretty good BBQ!
Who do you admire most and why?
Bill Taylor. We share the same philosophy of putting students first in the work we do. He hired me almost 20 years ago (at St. George’s) because he saw something in me that I didn’t know was there. He’s a leader that cares and listens … and that’s rare.
What’s one piece of advice that you share with students?
When there is a clear choice, chose right from wrong.
If you’d like to meet Tom, reach out by email at tdensford@trinitypawling.org or call him at 845-855-4831. He’s looking forward to meeting you all!
by Judy Redder